Wisdom Comes With a Pencil
The best change I made to my reading

The Humble Pencil: A Tool for Wisdom
At the heart of wisdom is a tool we often overlook — the pencil. Its core, made from graphite, formed over millions of years under intense pressure, serves as an apt metaphor for knowledge. While graphite may not be as flashy as other materials, it’s the steady hand that helps us capture and reflect on our thoughts. And when it comes to reading, a pencil can unlock an entirely new world of understanding.
Why Writing While Reading Matters
Many years ago, I made a commitment to take my reading more seriously. Like many others, I wondered what the most studious and wise people were doing differently. Their secret? They didn’t just read; they wrote with a pencil in hand. At first, I resisted this habit. Writing in a book felt like vandalism, but soon, I came to see that it was more an act of love than destruction. Today, I even use a pen — because marking up my books has turned them into tools for deeper learning.
Mint condition books might look nice on a shelf, but leaving them unmarked misses the point of reading. A book is meant to teach and challenge you, and keeping it pristine can prevent that from happening.
The Benefits of Writing While You Read
So, why write in your books? For the small effort it takes, you gain three massive advantages that can elevate your learning.
- Becoming Your Own Teacher
When you write while reading, you force yourself to think more deeply. The process of scribbling notes in the margins is like teaching yourself. Without the active engagement of writing, it’s easy for your eyes to glide over the page, losing focus and letting key ideas slip by. But with a pencil in hand, you’re suddenly awake — analyzing, questioning, and reflecting on every sentence. This helps you stay alert and absorb more of what you’re reading.
As Mortimer J. Adler said, “Marking up a book is not an act of mutilation but of love.”
- Real-Time Feedback on Your Understanding
Richard Feynman once said, “If you can’t explain something to a first-year student, then you haven’t really understood it.” When you write in your own words, it forces clarity. You can simplify a complex idea into a form that makes sense to you. If you struggle to rewrite it, that’s your cue to revisit the material and fill in the gaps.
It’s like having your own personal tutor — except the tutor is your pencil, helping you make sure you truly grasp what you’re reading.
- Avoiding the Ghost of Forgetfulness
We’ve all been there: you finish a great book, but a day later, you can’t recall the key points. It’s frustrating. But writing down your thoughts while reading anchors the ideas in your memory. It’s like building a sturdy castle of knowledge instead of one that crumbles the moment you move on to the next book.
Taking notes isn’t just a classroom habit — it’s essential for lifelong learning. And by making your notes as you go, you ensure that the book’s wisdom doesn’t fade away.
Friction: The Secret Ingredient for Retention
The act of writing introduces friction into the process of reading, slowing you down just enough to help ideas stick. It’s like engraving a thought into your mind, deepening the impression with each stroke of the pencil. This friction makes the ideas last, allowing them to stand up to time, much like ancient inscriptions.
In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to skim through books and forget them later. But with pencil in hand, you turn reading into a thoughtful, active process.
A Lifetime Practice
Annotating books is an act of love, simple enough to start with a pencil, but deep enough to practice for a lifetime. As you grow comfortable with it, you’ll find your understanding of books deepening, and your ability to retain knowledge improving.
So next time you sit down with a book, grab a pencil. The wisdom you gain will be worth it.